Hi gals. How has everyone been doing lately?
Things have been a bit blue over here. And for no particular reason really. Maybe I should say I am in more a rut. It’s just I’ve been working so hard on making changes and I’m not seeing results. So FRUSTRATING! Do you ever have these moments? It makes you feel like “what’s the point”?
I’ve been working out a ton – not one pound has shed. Not one I tell ya! Welcome to your 30’s. I’m focusing so hard on creating content and not seeing anything special in return. I could go on but let’s not have a self pity party right? These are incredible problems to have.
Well the other day a friend – which we are not particularly close – sent me an email out of the clear blue and it read….
Talk about a pop of pink cheerfulness into my day. Month even! How incredibly thoughtful.
When I expressed my deepest gratitude, she mentioned how her New Year’s resolution is to tell people when they are doing a good job and be more supportive. I almost fell on the floor.
I know we all have our downs and if you are anything like me, keep it tucked away inside with a bright smile on my face.
So today I encourage YOU to add a pop of pink to someone’s rather blue day. Send a note just because or tell someone how you’ve noticed what a nice job they’re doing. And I promise it will lift their spirits more than you’ll ever know. It did for me.
Thanks for noticing Sara and making me smile. Karma lady.
Shop the post: Equipment Slim Signature Blouse from ShopBop || Rebecca Minkoff mini MAB Tote in Zest || Black Skinny Jeans || TOMS Tortoise Shades || Brian Atwood Booties (old but similar here) || C.Wonder Studs (old) || Bangles from Classic Remix
A huge thank you to Arin for taking these wonderful photos. Kiss, kiss! Who by the way just started writing for Whitney Port!
I totally here you! I’ve been in a big blogging slump since the new year. I think it’s because I was trying really hard for a while, didn’t see huge returns, and got burnt out. Blogging is hard right now, too, because the market is so over saturated that it’s easy to feel you’re overshadowed. It is such a great thing to keep in mind to leave a comment on someone’s post or send them a happy e-mail. I have really enjoyed your new content, too! Your pictures look amazing. Keep up the awesome work, because I’m sure you’ll start seeing a return soon! And I bet once the weather gets nicer, we’ll notice a surge of inspiration. At least that’s what I keep telling myself:) Hope you’re having a great start to your day!
Come back, I miss your posts!!
AGREED!
Thanks Kari! You are so sweet and I totally understand what you mean. It’s a lot of work this blogging thing. I guess that’s why they say you have to LOVE it. You can’t do it for the money. Well I love your blog and especially your voice. You have such a great one. Keep it up and hang in there. Praying for spring to come quick.
I’m with Kari, keep it up! I need to get better about sending little notes here and there, especially because I know how much they mean to me.
p/s you look amazing in these photos! Remember, muscle weighs more than fat and the scale doesn’t always tell all 😉
Thanks Jess! And I totally needed to hear that – I will keep pushing through it. March – you better be good to us!
I can relate to ALL. OF. THE. ABOVE.
Maybe it’s the winter doldrums, maybe it’s the post-holiday hangover, but I’ve fallen into into a cocoon of laziness for the past few weeks and I’m struggling to get out of it. I’m new to blogging, and honestly it’s been a great distraction – a creative challenge to come up with content and it’s forcing me to learn new skills and HUSTLE.
And, wow I feel you on the decreasing ROI of working out.I ran my second half marathon last year and didn’t lose any weight during my training (during which time I stuck to a strict eating plan), like not a pound. Ultimately, I stopped weighing myself, and frankly it was a great decision. It was liberating to no longer be a prisoner of a set of digits.
Anyway, keep up the good work!
-Alex /// http://www.riothouseblog.com
Gaaahhh the ROI on working out is probably the worst! And most certainly doesn’t help. I feel like I deserve a trophy for making it to the gym alone – not even counting the working out. Such is life. But I guess we just have to keep going and SOMETHING will eventually happen. Also I have read most people quit their New Year resolutions in February – which I can see why. Keep at it and I think you are doing a great job at your blog! It only gets better with time.
Love this post!! I can absolutely relate and I love how you made your blue and Sarah’s pop of pink literal. Made me smile on a day that I needed it!
Katharine
http://www.paytington.com
Thanks Katharine – I was hoping someone noticed my correlation from my clothes to my mood 🙂
Totally agree, I’m in a slump too! Usually though I remind myself this is when it counts and it motivates me to push through. Usually then is when I see results!
Katie, I COMPLETELY agree! It’s right after a slump when all the good stuff starts pouring in. Pushing through…
Totally am relating blog wise. I feel like I’m in a lull and am excited for ideas to post to the blog and just don’t get the same exciting feedback. It’s been hard thinking about “next steps” on how to move forward when my motivation isn’t there, ya know? Anyways, like you said- no pity party! Just had to tell you’re not alone 🙂
Thanks Katie! Hang in there – we are all in it together right? I also feel spring is right around the corner, which brings new opportunities and a fresh perspective. Only 4 more weeks!
Keep in mind that where YOU are now is where someone ELSE is striving to get to next. (Um, my blog wants to look like your blog.) And as for the weight-loss journey, there are a few outside causes that can impact progress besides diet and exercise. I did a quick run-down here (link below), but also recommend the book Ultra Metabolism by Dr. Mark Hyman. http://elevatemobilefitness.com/why-your-personal-trainer-might-not-help-you-lose-weight/
Mariah, so true! Thank you for a great reminder. You are the fitness queen and have such a banging body – I want to be where you are! Definitely takes a lot of patience and persistance. Good things don’t come easy right?
Thanks so much! Everyone has good days and bad days. What I’ve found to be the trick is to work at it long enough and consistently enough to have more good days than bad–that’s really all you need for success in any endeavor right? 🙂
I have been feeling this way SO MUCH recently too… And from the looks of these comments here, some other fab ladies are too! I wonder if there is something in the universe going on that we’re not aware of.. the energy has been strange in my world as of late. The good thing is, nothing is permanent. In this life, the only constant is change. So while we may be feeling this way now, in a month, a week or a day, things could be 100% difference. Sending support! So happy to have found your blog.
Amber, you are so sweet! It’s so nice to know we aren’t alone. I swear, it must be this whole winter slump thing. Only 5 more weeks till spring – which means new beginnings and new inspiration. And LOTS of color! Yay!
You are the cutest. I love that purse. I know things get frustrating, but keep working! You are doing such an amazing job.
Isn’t it funny how sometimes the most unlikely people are your biggest fans? Someone from grad school – that I hadn’t even been in touch with for seven years – just sent me the sweetest message. Those little encouragements are the best.
I love these kinds of stories 🙂 Need to do this more often — send ‘just because’ love notes! Hope to see you soon, Kit!
Thanks again for taking my pics Arin!
Kit, that is adorable. Someone from grad school? So nice of them. P.S. I didn’t know you went to grad school?! Learn something new every day. Thanks so much for dropping a note. xoxo
Aw, thanks for the shout-out, Nicole! You’re seriously the sweetest and I am so beyond lucky to know you!!! You look beautiful (as always) — Love the lovin’ on here! Keep up the great work and I will see you next week! XX http://www.heartofchic.com
In all aspects of my life – this is where I am right now. It really is SUCH a frustrating feeling, but I think we just have to keeeeep giving it time. So sick of that advice, BUT it’s all that we can do. Hope things start looking up soon!! I just started following along with the blog linkup, and I love your site!!! xo
Annie Reeves
Annie, means so much that you are a new blog friend! I myself really enjoyed the link up. I guess it’s good advice because it’s true. But doesn’t mean it’s easy. Thanks again for stopping by and leaving a note. Means so much!
I have been loving all of your new series and the revamp of the blog. I think you are doing a great job and the hard work is showing. Super cute outfit too :-). Maybe it is this horrible Chicago winter that is making you blue. Hope to see you soon! xo
Chicago weather – I can’t even handle it anymore! Thanks so much for the support Sam 🙂 Can’t wait for Sunday!