Life Advice From Kirstin Martin, Owner of Smitten Boutique

 

Hello friends and happy Monday!

It feels great to be back. With the website update and just good ‘ol life, I had to hit the pause button last week. Anyone want to be my assistant?

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MEET KIRSTIN, OWNER OF SMITTEN BOUTIQUE

I’m ecstatic to introduce you to Kirstin Martin today! She’s the brilliant mind behind one of my FAVORITE stores in Chicago – Smitten Boutique. If you haven’t seen it in person, make a note to get there stat. Custom stationary, the most creative gift ideas, along with regular appearances from famous authors and artists!

Kirstin’s surprising background makes you want to rethink your own career path. She worked as an auditor for Ernst & Young. After a few years, she escaped to Costa Rica & Mexico to learn Spanish, which ultimately inspired her to start her passion project, Smitten Boutique!

Let’s talk some shop, shall we?

 

 

Kirstin, you​ ​have​ ​quite​ ​the​ ​resume!​ ​How​ ​did​ ​you​ ​land​ ​in​ ​Chicago​ ​of​ ​all places​ ​with​ ​Smitten​ ​Boutique?

I​ ​came​ ​to​ ​Chicago​ ​for​ ​a​ ​guy​ ​-​ ​and​ ​we’ve​ ​been​ ​married​ ​for​ ​12 years​ ​now!

What’s​ ​the​ ​#1​ ​thing​ ​you​ ​want​ ​people​ ​to​ ​know​ ​about​ ​Smitten Boutique?

That​ ​it’s​ ​a​ ​happy​ ​place​ ​-​ ​and​ ​they​ ​should​ ​come​ ​see​ ​us​ ​when they’re​ ​in​ ​the​ ​West​ ​Loop​ ​(we​ ​might​ ​even​ ​be​ ​serving​ ​mimosa’s​ ​if​ ​we’re feeling​ ​frisky​ ​;0)

How​ ​do​ ​you​ ​know​ ​Gray​ ​Malin?

I​ ​don’t​ ​know​ ​Gray​ ​personally​ ​-​ ​but​ ​was​ ​lucky​ ​enough​ ​to​ ​be recommended​ ​by​ ​our​ ​Abrams​ ​rep​ ​(his​ ​publisher)​ ​as​ ​the​ ​location​ ​for his​ ​Chicago​ ​book​ ​signings​ ​(this​ ​is​ ​the​ ​second​ ​one​ ​we’ve​ ​hosted).​ ​ ​He was​ ​a​ ​delight​ ​the​ ​first​ ​time​ ​he​ ​came​ ​and​ ​his​ ​fans​ ​adore​ ​him.​ ​ ​We​ ​are truly​ ​thrilled​ ​to​ ​be​ ​welcoming​ ​everyone​ ​back!

 

 

Why​ ​do​ ​you​ ​feel​ ​stationery​ ​is​ ​important?

I​ ​think​ ​stationery​ ​is​ ​important​ ​as​ ​a​ ​vehicle​ ​for​ ​the​ ​handwritten note​ ​-​ ​which​ ​is​ ​epically​ ​important.

What​ ​time​ ​do​ ​you​ ​typically​ ​get​ ​up​ ​in​ ​the​ ​morning​ ​and​ ​go​ ​to​ ​bed?

I​ ​am​ ​a​ ​night​ ​owl​ ​by​ ​nature​ ​(as​ ​I​ ​sit​ ​here​ ​typing​ ​these​ ​answers​ ​at 2:00 am)​ ​but​ ​I​ ​usually​ ​go​ ​to​ ​bed​ ​between​ ​10:00​ ​&​ ​11:00 pm​ ​so​​ ​I​ ​can be​ ​fresh​ ​and​ ​ready​ ​to​ ​start​ ​the​ ​day​ ​when​ ​my​ ​kids​ ​wake​ ​up​ ​around 7:00am.

What​ ​mistake​ ​do​ ​you​ ​see​ ​people​ ​constantly​ ​make​ ​that​ ​they should​ ​be​ ​aware​ ​of? 

They​ ​call​ ​me​ ​by​ ​the​ ​wrong​ ​name​ ​-​ ​it’s​ ​a​ ​toughy​ ​-​ ​but​ ​my​ ​name​ ​is Kirstin​ ​(two​ ​“i”s​ ​and​ ​rhymes​ ​with​ ​curtain)!!

What’s​ ​your​ ​favorite​ ​cocktail​ ​to​ ​serve​ ​guests​ ​when​ ​entertaining at​ ​home?

I​ ​love​ ​having​ ​people​ ​over​ ​for​ ​brunch​ ​and​ ​I​ ​make​ ​a​ ​mean​ ​Bloody Mary!

What’s​ ​your​ ​favorite​ ​hostess​ ​tip?

Relax​ ​and​ ​enjoy​ ​-​ ​your​ ​guests​ ​will​ ​have​ ​a​ ​lot​ ​more​ ​fun​ ​if​ ​you’re having​ ​fun!

 

 

What​ ​resources​ ​do​ ​you​ ​use​ ​to​ ​stay​ ​organized​ ​and​ ​remember tasks?

I​ ​try​ ​to​ ​start​ ​each​ ​day​ ​by​ ​making​ ​of​ ​list​ ​of​ ​“must​ ​do’s”​ ​in​ ​the Notes​ ​app​ ​on​ ​my​ ​phone​ ​and​ ​then​ ​I​ ​delete​ ​them​ ​as​ ​I​ ​complete​ ​the tasks​ ​throughout​ ​the​ ​day.​ ​ ​It​ ​helps​ ​to​ ​keep​ ​me​ ​focused​ ​on​ ​what​ ​really needs​ ​to​ ​get​ ​done​ ​and​ ​allows​ ​me​ ​to​ ​feel​ ​like​ ​I’m​ ​can​ ​“unplug”​ ​once​ ​all of​ ​the​ ​big​ ​items​ ​are​ ​crossed​ ​off!

What​ ​mistake​ ​do​ ​you​ ​see​ ​people​ ​constantly​ ​make​ ​that​ ​they should​ ​be​ ​aware​ ​of?​

​More​ ​and​ ​more,​ ​I​ ​see​ ​people​ ​pick​ ​up​ ​their phone​ ​in​ ​the​ ​middle​ ​of​ ​a​ ​conversation.​ ​ ​I​ ​think​ ​it​ ​might​ ​be​ ​one​ ​of the​ ​rudest​ ​things​ ​you​ ​can​ ​do​ ​to​ ​a​ ​friend​ ​or​ ​acquaintance.​ ​ ​It​ ​says “you’re​ ​not​ ​as​ ​interesting​ ​as​ ​this​ ​App​ ​or​ ​this​ ​text​ ​-​ ​so​ ​I’m​ ​going to​ ​half​ ​listen​ ​to​ ​you​ ​while​ ​I​ ​do​ ​something​ ​else​ ​at​ ​the​ ​same​ ​time!”

What’s​ ​the​ ​most​ ​recent​ ​thing​ ​someone​ ​did​ ​that​ ​really​ ​impressed you?​

My husband took my three kids to a dear friend’s house so that I could have six of my college girlfriends come to our house for a girls weekend (and he even helped me clean-up when he got back)!!

 

Kirstin, thank you so much for being here today! I can’t wait to come visit you in the city soon!

For more career advice, check out PR pro, Jenn Lake and interior designer, Donna Hall!